So, I know I said once a week...I'm trying :-)
Ok so, Im really excited about hanging out with the freshmen girls, and getting to know them!
This past week I had coffee with a girl I met last semester but never really talked to, and she spilt her life story without me asking anything...it was cool. She said "I dont know why but I felt like I should tell you...." And now, everytime we see eachother, shes like "Hey best friend" :-) I love it.
But I guess I keep thinking about my other friendships. I have made SO many wonderful truly genuine friends. Not only here in Warrensburg but also the ones from back home.
But how can I keep those balanced with the relationships I want to build with the freshmen girls? Like every relationship, we have to invest time and effort into them. So why do I feel like I have to pick a select few. Every one of them offers something different, something I click with.
I dont know I guess I feel like I'm bored with some of them but I dont want to "break up" with them so to say. I feel like I go through friends like most girls go through boys. Once I get bored I want to toss them...(except I can't because I dont want to...)
AAAAAAAAHHHHHHHHHHHH.........................
I dont know what to do...any advice?
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I think that in life we have different seasons. Jr. Hi, Hi, College, life. Even within those I listed could be other seasons. And in those seasons we will have friends who are closer.
ReplyDeleteWe will have friends who become closer. Who become more distant.
To keep them all "balanced" isn't going to be easy. Sometimes because of the miles between us. Sometimes because of other things.
I don't think we have to "break-up" with friends because we've grown "bored" with them. They are still our friends. We've just gone into a new season of life. So our relationships with them may flux somewhat.
I don't know if that made any sense, but it did as it came to my mind and fingers.